Monday, 25 July 2011

Treats to Help you Lose Weight

It was a long old week last week and ended feeling very jaded and tired! Yep, even therapists get this way sometimes! So I needed a treat, something to look forward to at the weekend. I’m a great believer in treats and rewards for hard work. What is the point otherwise? So many people treat themselves in unhealthy ways or do not do so at all and then feel very dipondant with life. How so do you reward yourself? With a bottle of wine or a pack of doughnuts? Rewarding yourself with a biscuit with a cup of tea will ensure you put on 5 extra pounds in weight you don’t need over the year.
My top 5 rewards recently have been;
1.       A beautiful bunch of lilies
2.       A new paperback
3.       A sports massage
4.       A morning on the beach with a paper when there were loads of chores to do
5.       A 15 minute water ski
None too expensive and even the water ski only cost about the same as a couple of bottles of decent wine and gave me way more of a thrill and a long lasting buzz. Yes, my legs ache but in a good way.
Think of 5 ways to ‘treat’ yourself now that will help you ‘feel’ better instead of reaching for food or booze. I guarentee you will gain so much more pleasure from these and help you lose the weight too.

Friday, 15 July 2011

A Weighty Memory Problem

Clients tearfully say to me that other people think they are stupid because they are fat. This causes them to work really hard to prove otherwise but if that is the reality they are not going to win. Research at the University of Los Angeles has shown that on average the brains of overweight people were on average 4-8% smaller than those of healthy weight. Premature ageing of the brain results in memory loss and may even contribute to Alzheimer’s.  Scans of the brain showed that the shrinkage occurred around the area of the brain responsible for reasoning, memory retention and ability to make judgements.
The good news was that when they lost weight the memory scores improved. The scientists do not really know why yet but do know the brain starts to function normally again.
Sleep deprivation is a common problem with overweight people. Reported to me time and again is f the marvellous side effects of using hypnotherapy CD’s is much improved sleep which affects concentration hugely in the day.
So thank goodness I am not fat, just coping with the stupidity caused by the menopause is challenging enough!
If you have had enough worrying about what others think of you, start today by booking a FREE Chat and finding out what it will really mean to you to have others see the real you.

Tuesday, 5 July 2011

See Food Diet

We have locusts in our staff room. If we have biscuits or cakes on the staff room table which we frequently do they literally disappear within hours or even minutes sometimes. If you suffer from the inability to waste food as discussed before and need a dustbin then our staff table will oblige!
A study in America put sweets on the desks of the secretaries in either a clear or a white jar with a lid. The jars were the same in every way and each night after the secretaries had gone home the jars were refilled after taking note of how many had been eaten. The secretaries that had clear jars had eaten an astonishingly 77% more calories than those with the clear jar. This would have added 5ilbs in extra weight over the year! How often do you just mindlessly see food (I include biscuits, sweets etc) and just eat it because it’s there. No checking in with your body as to whether it need refuelling or not? Is this random eating of your piling on the pounds or is it making you weary during the day as your body works hard to process the random junk you shove in with no thought?
On the plus side you are less likely to overeat if you are well hydrated. My clients will see that I keep a pint glass in my desk. Not filled with a pint of bitter, I hasten to add, but a pint of water. I always have a 2 litre bottle of water near me and you will be asked if you would like a glass. This is not only to be polite but I find that I can see how likely someone is to be dehydrated by how much they drink or not during our session and whether this needs to be in their hypnotherapy recording. We often mistake the signs of dehydration for hunger so instead of reaching for a biscuit reach for a pint of water.
Top tips:
1. Keep a pint glass on your desk or at your workstation and you will drink much, much more that if you have a small glass. In another study the military found that soldiers drank 81% more water when the water jugs were put on the mess tables as against on a side table. Very important when to be dehydrated could be fatal.  You will be less tired and less likely to reach for a quick sugar ‘fix’.
2. If you have ‘junk’ foods lying around or inside your fridge or a cupboard you frequent, you are having to say ‘no’ mentally so much more often. Each time you see the food you have to make a decision. So put away the ‘junk’, change the cupboard or put to the back of the fridge. The chocolate in my fridge is on the top shelf in the door with a plastic cover over it as it’s where the eggs should be.  I know it’s there but I do not see it every time I open the door.
Back in the office though, my hiding places have been scouted out!! Fireproof locked cupboard perhaps?

Tuesday, 17 May 2011

Stop Eating in Front of Your Computer to Lose Weight

SeeSaw.com has conducted a survey on eating habits and found that tree-fifths of people are eating their evening meal in front of their computer. I could have saved them the money on this research as it’s all too common and not just for evening meals. The main culprit is lunch, with virtually all my clients who are office based eating lunch whilst on the computer.
To really enjoy your food and be aware of your body’s natural signals to stop eating you must concentrate on your meal. Enjoy the taste, the smell, the textures, the colours! Give some respect to your food and your body by taking time to nourish yourself without distraction.
Take a break from work or the PC and you will come back refreshed. Enjoy a conversation with your family or friends. This will slow your eating and help you to notice when you have had enough and can stop. Remember its all waste, whether you waste it in the waste bin or waste in on your waist.

Wednesday, 6 April 2011

What Makes You Fearful? Weight Loss Fears

Trekking through the jungle alone didn’t make me fearful, a venomous snake crossing my path made me jump but didn’t make me fearful but eating street food did make me fearful. How weird is that, the thought of getting sick from unhygienic food made me cringe as opposed to getting lost or bitten.
What makes you fearful with regards to your health?
I have heard many different fears expressed by clients regarding food and their personal self image. Despite the abundance of food that we have available to us many still have a deep rooted fear that there won’t be enough at the next meal s so have to eat everything available then and there. Still others have the fear of punishment within them from childhood if they do not clear their plate.
Saddest of all is those who fear unwanted attention by the opposite sex should they become slim. These behaviours stem from previous experience and have become deeply embedded in the unconscious mind. Hypnosis helps to make sense of these fears and free you from them so they stay where they belong, in the past.

Friday, 1 April 2011

Holiday Food and Making Choices

And there it was! The golden arches of McDonalds in Panama!! It never ceases to amaze me where this company has got to despite revolutions and poverty, it is everywhere. Finally back from my Central America travels the only tummy upset was the day I got home when all I had eaten for 24 hours was airline food. 

The staple food of Central America is gallo pinto, fried white rice and kidney beans and this is breakfast, lunch and dinner for many.  Being from the affluent west with dollars to spend I was privileged to have choice and ate very, very well most of the time. My gallo pinto was accompanied by meat or fish with a smoothie of fresh fruits to drink.  Eating was a pleasure when food is simple and fresh. In Nicaragua they say that no-one has to go hungry as there is always fruit on the trees. What an amazing attitude from people with so little yet with a welcoming and friendly spirit.

This beautiful little girl was selling mangoes by the roadside instead of being in school.

Travels in third world countries really help you focus on how much we have in this country and be eternally grateful for our ability to choose our destiny.
What are you grateful for today? What choices do you have?

Friday, 4 March 2011

Holiday Eating

My holiday travelling through Central America is nearly here. I set the goal and off I go.  With my interests in food, I will be looking at what the local people eat and sampling new cuisine. There is nothing worse than the sight of a McDonalds when I am abroad and seeing how many tourists will go there because they know what to expect. No sense of adventure or experimentation.
Having said all that my family did draw the line at eating Guinea Pig in Peru, but really couldn’t!
I will inevitable be thinner when I come back because of all the trekking but hope to avoid tummy upsets by taking large doses of probiotics before I go and whilst there. That is not a recommendation it just works for me really well. If I can make my digestive system super strong before I go then I am less likely to suffer.
I’ll let you know what curiosities I find so long as I do not spend too much time bouncing off the walls after sampling all the coffee out there. What caffeine does to your body is another story